Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Liar Liar I hope you die in a Fire (Well it rhymes but I wish no physical harm on anyone )
You know what really Sucks? Full of shit liars, dudes and dudets I can deal with a lot, but a liar I cannot deal with at all it is hard to even feign respect for them. . I have no respect for those who will say one thing and then do another. You know we do not have much in this world. I know that honesty can be abrasive if not done correctly, but if you are honest with who you are and what you do then you can hold your head up and fear nothing. It is not about people liking you, well I want people to like me as much as the next person, but I want them to like me for who I really am, not who I want them to think I am. Does that make sense I read it a couple of times but don’t know, I am keeping it. People might not like honesty, or what is said when being honest but they can at least respect it, at least they should respect it if not then there is something wrong with them. I like people who do not agree with me all the time cause they are honest with their thoughts, observations and feelings and that’s where people get messed up, thinking or having the mindset, if I don’t agree they won’t like me or if I don’t say something to make them feel better then they won’t like me or something weird.. This whole lying thing, what is it about trying to be nice? Well we do it because we want people to feel good, but it is bullshit; trying to make people feel good, fuck you it makes them feel worse after they have figured out that you are a liar. You know most of us who read the blogs are adults we may not act like it but we are. Tell me you don’t like how I do something, or how I dress or whatever but be honest about and then hold yourself to that standard. This is not do what I say and not what I do. I can’t do that in my professional life, Fuck I am having the hardest time doing it in some aspects of my personal life. I am being honest and as truthful as I can. The thing is I am not lying. Being a liar is the worst thing you can be. Especially as someone in charge if you are not, hey we all try to get away with shit and we slide a little but in the big things you CANNOT lie. Just a side piece, everyone that sticks up for the liar and has his back is either in on it, being fooled by them, or totally full of shit themselves. I miss my boys and wish them well and I have no empathy or sympathy for those that lie just get out of my life as quick as possible.
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Speaking from experience, I agree: lying gets you nowhere fast. In my case it was a lie of silence, pretending everything was allright when it was actually going down the shitter in a big way. The rationale is that I was protecting someone by not sharing the truth, but the ultimate truth was I lacked the cujones to stand up and take the consequences of the reality. I desperately believed (rather, deceived myself) that I would be able to turn things around, and the lie would have spared people unnecessary suffering and anxiety. But it was definitely the wrong path, and the fallout was enormous.
ReplyDeleteSimply put, yeah, truth can be difficult, but it's always better than lying. And simpler.